Starting Small Talk with Girls

Walking up and talking to a girl who don't know anything about can always make you nervous. But most of the time, a little preparation is all that's required.

Remember what small talk really is. It's a way to have a conversation with someone. There's really no limit to what you can talk about when you're making some small talk. Just about any time, there's an opportunity to make some small talk with someone. It's really amazing how easily you can make friends when you know how to small talk. Think about it, most relationships gets a jump start just because of a little small talk.

That next friend you meet is just a small talk away if you think about it. You should devote some of your time to make some small talk even when you're in the office. There are some things you can do to improve your small talk skills. It will certainly and surely improve many aspects of your conversations.

Don't pick any age bracket, just go ahead and talk to that old dude over there. Aks some tourists how they're doing and start something good. Even someone you often encounter can be a good conversation partner if you can make small talk sexy with conversation escalation. If you can't think of a good topic to talk about, there's always the magazine and newspapers lying around. Anything you can get your hands on can be a good source of things to talk about.

Sports, fashion and popular culture are some of the best ones you can find things to talk about. Spend some time on the internet reading about the type of people you want to meet. If you hear something funny or someone told you a good story, keep a note of it. If you've been to many places, it's always good to know where you've been and get them excited. Practice those opening lines in the mirror and talk about random topics. All the various things you know will help you greatly with making small talk happen.

If you know a lot of things, you can talk about a lot of things. The best thing you can do to start is make yourself open for small talk. There's always a chance to talk to someone when you're just waiting for something. You can even make the situation favorable to you when you want to talk to a girl. Parties are always the best place to get some conversation going. Don't be too forceful and face the person you want to talk to. Making your body language open and approachable should help you with this.

Keep your attention focused on her using your eyes and you communicate to her what you want to say. Some make the mistake of being too eager. Again this is a mistake. Don't do it. You don't want to scare her away by overwhelming her and leaning in too close. When you know her already, you can get away with just a simple greeting with her name. Don't make it complicated and just keep it simple and direct. But when you don't know her, you want to be confident with your introductions with her.

If you want to make her feel a little bit special, you can say her name every now and then if you know it. Don't act like you're just killing time when you're talking to her. When you're making small talk with a girl, be sure to keep it light and funny.

It's the best way to make great small talks with anyone you want to talk to. It gives the conversation more energy and keeps it going no matter what you're talking about. Avoid talking about anything too negative so she won't be turned off. Even if your day isn't going as good as you'd hope, you don't want to make her feel bad about it.

When you can't think of anything to say, blurt out a compliment that's true. You can make her feel appreciated when you say something good about her before you get going again. Keep your ears peeled for something worthy to talk about like common interests. It doesn't have anything special, just something you both shared. If both of you can relate to something then you can connect with her even more. Even when you think it's not a good topic, you never know where it can lead you. When you can find a common interest,

keep to it. When that time comes, you can always say something personal to you and make a connection with her. But don't make it too personal just yet if you don't want to freak her out. When you get to talk about yourself, it's only natural that she should talk about herself, too. If you want to know more about her, go ahead and ask her some good questions. Again, don't ask anything that's considered too personal like health, religion, or political views.

Just remember to keep it light and funny and good. Get her talking about what she really likes and let her keep talking about it. Then, based on whet she says, you can then say something else that's funny or another question about what she said. But try not to ask too many question to make her feel at ease and comfortable.

You don't want to make her feel like she's being interrogated for something she didn't do. Balance how you ask your questions and when you make your statements to give her some time to think.

When she's talking more and more, then you can just think of the next thing to talk about. But best of all, be a better listener. When you get to really listen to her something magical truly happens. It will lead you to more things you can talk about and even get the conversation more exciting and fun. Be sure you're listening intently so you wouldn't miss something important that could lead to somewhere good.

Listen carefully and you won't need to do much of the talking yourself. If you listen well, you'll understand and encourage the people talking to you. You can just listen and the conversation will just keep going on with itself with no effort from you.

Before you part ways, you'll know more things about her than most people do about you. This could help both of you connect at a deeper level and make her feel good about the experience.

If you like talking to her, you can suggest another time to talk and have a plan in place to meet again next time. You can just tell her how much you like talking to her and how you'd like to talk again some time. Leave her feeling good about herself before you go. Making small talk can happen anywhere so keep yourself open for them. This will help you work on you confidence and overcoming your shyness.
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